This month, I do not celebrate survival.
I celebrate recognition.
Not of what I built,
but of what never left me.
She was always there—
the girl who walked into rooms
without asking permission from the air.
She did not measure herself
against clocks or credentials.
She measured herself
by the size of her heart,
and it was vast.
She loved without strategy.
She dreamed without apology.
She believed,
not because she had proof—
but because belief was her nature.
Somewhere along the way,
the world tried to hand me smaller definitions.
Names that fit into sentences.
Roles that fit into introductions.
But she never accepted them.
She stood quietly behind my eyes,
waiting.
Waiting for me to remember
that I was never created
to be explained.
I was created to be experienced.
And now,
I walk beside her again.
Not as someone who found herself,
but as someone who stopped abandoning herself.
I no longer rush.
I no longer shrink.
I no longer negotiate with spaces
that cannot hold my full weight.
I have returned
to the girl who knew
that her existence alone
was reason enough to stand tall.
This month, I do not dedicate myself
to the woman I became.
I dedicate myself
to the girl who always knew
I would.
#WomensMonth #March #HappyWomenMonth

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