“Going along to get along” sounds harmless—until the silence costs a team its integrity, its innovation, or its people.

In many organizations, the silent agreement to overlook what’s wrong—whether it’s inefficiency, ethical missteps, or culture issues—comes not from apathy but fear. Fear of rocking the boat. Fear of retribution. Fear of being seen as a problem rather than a professional.

This fear stems from one key missing piece: psychological safety.

Harvard scholar Amy Edmondson defines psychological safety as “a shared belief held by members of a team that the team is safe for interpersonal risk-taking.” Without it, even the best ideas and feedback die in silence.

But here’s what I believe:

Leadership is not a title—it’s a mindset.

The real leaders in any room are the ones who dare to speak up—not to be right, but to do right.

These are the colleagues who refuse to normalize dysfunction.

Who ask hard questions in soft ways.

Who say, “That may be how it’s always been done, but is it working?”

They’re not being combative—they’re being constructively courageous.

For organizations to thrive, we need more leaders at every level who:

• Model open, respectful dissent.

• Create spaces where hard truths are welcomed—not weaponized.

• Encourage curiosity over conformity.

This means going beyond “open door” policies and ensuring those doors actually open. It means leaders modeling active listening, showing vulnerability, and rewarding—not punishing—those who challenge the status quo.

In environments where this is practiced, innovation grows, trust deepens, and the best people stay.

So no, I don’t go along just to get along—because the cost of silence is too high.

And I hope more organizations will see that the courage to speak up is not resistance—it’s leadership.

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